So many things happened in the past 365 days, and I learnt a lot too. Let’s take a look at my 2006 first.
The Thesis Year
I started my year with the preparation for the thesis project in the university. It was kind of important because after all it was my last year of study, probably in my whole life. At least it was the last year of my official education life in schools.
The thesis project was fun and actually I had been anticipating for this for a long time. I didn’t care about anything at all but designed the things I wanted to. In the previous years you were assigned to design specific buildings and now you were allowed to do whatever you liked, even the way you would start and work out your design. It was really fun actually, but still you would feel lost if you had no idea what you wanted to do.
While my project went quite smoothly, my relationships with the other colleagues did not go well. There existed doubts, disagreement and competition, which made the atmosphere of the studio really tight. I hate that but there is nothing you can do to such situations, since it requires all the efforts of different people. I can only say, at least we shared some good times together.
Graduation Show, show time.
I was the head of the Publication Team of the Graduation Show Committee, and was in charge of the design for the book, invitation card, poster and venue installation. The experience was wonderful and valuable, and working with the other team-mates was fun. Even more, the show was a success, and teachers and professors gave me compliments about the design of the show, which definitely boosted my confidence in design work.
However, the show also reveals the dark side of the classmates. It is sad to see how selfish some classmates could be. For example, they only cared about themselves when they were moving the panels and models, setting up the venue and cleaning the place after the show. Just some of our committee members did the cleanup and job and I can tell you it was really tough. After the show, we were supposed to pack the models and move them onto the trucks. Some of the classmates just packed up and left the place, leaving the models for us to move! How selfish is that! It is ironic that they are pious Catholic. Is God teaching people to love and share and be considerate?
One of the coolest lessons I learnt is that you can work hard in school, but you have to pay attention to such exhibitions too because this is the place you are known to others. I didn’t do very well in the exam, but I was recognized by several firms and was lucky to join my current company. Score in school is important, but showing others how good you can be is even more.
Work hard, hard work.
Finally I ended my school life this year and started another chapter in my life. While many people can’t wait to join the work force, somehow it is also sad to leave the university. It is like losing freedom and start the life of nine-to-five. It is scary.
Still, working in my current office is fun. We are doing things that other firms may not have a chance to do. Even more, my seniors also gave us much freedom to work on the designs, so that when the design was built, we felt proud of it. It is very important to me because only in that way can you feel successful and not being used in the office. It is your design and people support you.
Also, the working environment was cool since we had our own room. We could do anything inside. We played on PSP when I didn’t need to work, and we listened to music during work too. It was just like the school studio, but actually, after September I moved out and worked in the new pool outside that room, and now I worked on the normal office desk. I made this decision because I felt extremely laid-back in that room and in the end my efficiency would drop to zero. Also, my new desk faces the harbour and with such a beautiful and open view, working is definitely much more fun!
Compared to my other classmates, my job is not extremely well-paid. Many people thought so since my company was one of the biggest developers in Hong Kong and the Chairman is one of the ten richest guys in the world. However, my salary is just normal like other junior architects. What is better than my classmates is that I would be paid for overtime work and I can leave the office on time. These are all “benefits” of the employees here, if you want to count them in.
Found the other half
Friends are important but 2006 showed me the other side behind the façade of friendship. Besides the bad people I finally realized during the graduation show, some of my friends left because of arguments or disagreement. Interesting enough we didn’t have a fight, nor did I hate anyone or vice versa. Our friendships just faded because we didn’t find any more topics to talk about, and thus didn’t manage to keep in touch. I also realized that some friends were just the come-and-play type. When there is problem, they will fly away. Isn’t it pathetic? That is one of the greatest lessons in my life!
But some friends were kind enough to remember me (isn’t that the greatest gift from friends already? Ha ha!). Apart from my friend from Australia (old friend moved to Aus), I made some reunion with old friends and old classmates. They were all cool and gave me much warmth in the year.
Love is always a mystery in my life it seems. Being single is not new to me and I have already been accustomed to such a free way. I think it is one of the reasons why I did well in school because I did not need to spend any time to deal with girls and their related problems. I said once after graduation: if I can choose, I will choose work because that is most important to me at my age now.
Very soon, God hears it and gives you a different situation to handle. Very unexpectedly, I met her and it was just too beautiful and fabulous. Love has never been like this and she opened my eyes completely. While it sounds a bit too fast, our relationship is unbelievably stable now and I can only say I will continue to work hard to realize my promise: keep this as our last long-term relationship in our lives.
Love is not easy, and after only 2 months I already realized I needed more knowledge and experience in the world of love. Going out with your girlfriend is nothing like hanging out with friends. Two people come together and two lifelines are like overlapping onto each other. You have to deal with your lover’s daily problems besides sharing happiness with her, on both practical and emotional aspects. Sometimes I feel frustrated because this is harder than you think, harder than any projects you did in the office, but actually, the key lies in understanding and giving. With these, you will be able to handle any love problems easily. That, is exactly one of my major items in the new year’s resolution list.
Disney Finale
After the unforgettable birthday, I had the coolest Christmas too. Cool not in the meaning of temperature, but meaning great. I went to the Disneyland in Hong Kong on 25th, and stayed one night there as well. The theme park was not very big as you may expect, but unlike what others commented, I enjoyed it much and I think it was very nice. You would not expect any crazy or super-cool rides or attractions, but it certainly has the mood and feel as a cartoon place. The fireworks were nice, and the staff was friendly too.
The main course of the whole trip was the hotel. We stayed in the more expensive one, the Disneyland Hotel, and we felt that the beautiful rooms and services were worth the extra money we paid. The mood was good and all the amenities were well-prepared and ready for use. When you stay in, you will feel like you are in the northern Europe, if not in a dreamy cartoon world.
Embracing the new year
2006 to me has a lot of unexpected changes and new achievement, and in general it was all good. My life has been changed too, as you can see I did less art because I was embarking on another chapter of life: work. If one asks me now how I felt about 2006, I would say it was a very valuable lesson so far and I learnt a lot. I think I need no more because I feel very contented. Things were happening very smoothly and now I got someone I love, what more do I need? Oh yes, I need the new year resolution! I don’t need any more materialistic items but some more learning in different aspects. Before going on to the resolution table, let’s have a look at last year’s one (check my past journal and you will find this!):
• Complete the thesis, which I hope can inspire people and give them new light on architecture + graphics.
• Complete more than 20 pieces of art.
• Able to play Moonlight on the piano
• Able to travel again (not on a tour) in Europe
• Able to do more in the kitchen (I mean cooking)
• Complete awBlog with Cyberworker (must be done, very confident)
• Learn AJAX.
• Find a good company that I enjoy working in after graduation.
Clearly there are many items I still have to work hard on and finish. Playing moonlight? I think that is going to be forever. Okay, I should be trying at any time. So that is my new year’s resolution: complete the unfinished tasks. Isn’t that a good plan for the year?